Self Description: I'm just a regular person who's always pretty cheerful, never in a glum mood, and I take things easy. Friends say being with me feels nice, no pressure at all; even if we just sit and chat about trivial stuff like what to have for dinner, it's all relaxed and smooth. Meeting up? It doesn't matter if it's here in China or somewhere abroad. If we click, even just grabbing a bowl of hot noodles at a nearby alley here, or planning a lazy little trip somewhere later, I'm totally happy with that. Now my kid's all grown up and have their own life. Living alone these days, I just feel a little soft spot—like wanting someone to share those small nice things with. For the rest of my life, I hope to find a guy who the kind who's responsible and cares about family, and takes things easy. I don't want anything big just someone to sit with, share a casual walk or a silly trip story, and take it slow through the rest of our life together.

Comments: I'm looking for a warm, easygoing man as my life partner. First, he's honest, open and straightforward with me on important matters, no lies; talkative and cheerful, so we can chat about daily little things comfortably; and empathetic, who'll listen patiently and understand me when I'm down. I also hope he has simple good habits: a regular daily routine, no heavy drinking or smoking, and keeps things tidy. He doesn't need to be super fit just in basic good health, enough for us to take casual walks or share meals together, with no major illnesses that disrupt daily life. Most importantly, he has a gentle sense of responsibility: keeps small promises, takes life seriously, and stands with me through little daily issues. That quiet reliability is what makes me feel secure enough to be with him.